Saturday, February 15, 2014

Heartache and Hope

It's been a rough 15 months.  Yes, for me but most entirely for my dearest friends Keri and Kori as they have watched and supported their sister Kristin through her cancer journey.
I have been a part of the Templeton family since 1986 so this hit home in a big way.  I have felt very helpless watching from the sidelines as my friends were hurting and crying their way through the days.
Sadly, Kristin's battle ended on February 9th.  It was a punch in the gut to realize that it was all over and that her four sweet children and husband were left behind to cope with this massive loss.
Yesterday, on Valentine's Day we gathered to commit her body to the ground and then move on to celebrate a life well lived.  Kristin was unlike Keri and Kori in so many ways yet they were bonded as sisters.  Kristin was honoured through a fantastic tribute that K & K bravely spoke at the service.  I even had a few laughs as the words were true and from the heart.
The reason that we don't despair though, is that our great hope is to be reunited with her in Heaven one day.  We all will die.  This is a fact!  But what happens to us when we die is in our capacity to decide.  Jesus promises eternal life to all those who chose to follow him.  What a comfort this is and it is the only reason we can smile through the tears!


6 comments:

villagegirl said...

Oh Rachel, my heart has been heavy for weeks thinking of the huge loss and lives turned upside down. My thoughts have never been far from their families. It is a true testament to their faith the way they have dealt with this tragedy...their hope in Jesus is tangible. How difficult it is to stand by and be able to do nothing and yet we know that God has his reasons for everything whether we get to know them this side of heaven or not. I will continue praying.

auntie h said...

Thanks for sharing your thoughts and feelings, Rachel. It never gets easier to lose a friend, nor to walk alongside those going through such a tough journey. My thoughts and prayers are with you, as well as your friends as they deal with this "new reality".

Lovella ♥ said...

It feels so surreal to me. I only met Kristen once and yet I have felt so bonded to this situation through prayer. I can imagine then how much harder it would be for you to to almost family. I'm sorry for your loss too.

Sonya said...

Very well said Rachel.

Keri's Collage... said...

Smiling through my tears too... thank you Rach. I know that this 15 months has been very hard for you as well. *HUGS* to you my friend! Thank you for your support as we navigate life without Kristin.

Kerry said...

So sorry for your loss!! We have been praying and will continue to pray...that God will give you peace and comfort and also give you the gift to comfort your friends as they mourn the loss of their sister.